You've probably come across this article because you've been asking yourself when to send that first text message after a date. It's a question that bothers most people after a date and I'm afraid there isn't just one answer.
But I'd like to use my experience and give you a few pointers to help you make your decision. I hope my advice will be useful and enable you to choose the right moment to send a text.
We've only had texting for the last ten years, but it's evolved into a really useful method of communicating with people.
A decade ago, it was quite normal for a person to call their date to let them know what a great time they'd had. You can still do this, of course, but a quick text is now an acceptable way of making the first contact after a date.
The game has changed slightly with the advent of texting and I'd like to help you get round the problems that present themselves.
A quick message within one day of the date would be my best advice. The same night, even, as long as you keep it short and sweet.
Try bringing up something that happened during the date and keep the tone light and fun. You don't even have to admit that you had a really good time. The fact that you are sending a text will transmit that message.
This should also be the start of a text conversation between the two of you, which has the big advantage of breaking the ice a little prior to the follow up call.
You'll have planted the seeds of a conversation with those texts and won't be stuck for words when, a day or two later, you call your date.
But I'd like to use my experience and give you a few pointers to help you make your decision. I hope my advice will be useful and enable you to choose the right moment to send a text.
We've only had texting for the last ten years, but it's evolved into a really useful method of communicating with people.
A decade ago, it was quite normal for a person to call their date to let them know what a great time they'd had. You can still do this, of course, but a quick text is now an acceptable way of making the first contact after a date.
The game has changed slightly with the advent of texting and I'd like to help you get round the problems that present themselves.
A quick message within one day of the date would be my best advice. The same night, even, as long as you keep it short and sweet.
Try bringing up something that happened during the date and keep the tone light and fun. You don't even have to admit that you had a really good time. The fact that you are sending a text will transmit that message.
This should also be the start of a text conversation between the two of you, which has the big advantage of breaking the ice a little prior to the follow up call.
You'll have planted the seeds of a conversation with those texts and won't be stuck for words when, a day or two later, you call your date.
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