Saturday, February 20, 2010

Do You Really Know How To Love A Man

By Wendy Mason

Loneliness is all around us. Even though we find ourselves in a planet with billions of people, many of these people live alone. Others, who may live with others, still harbor extreme loneliness on a continual basis. In the case of woman, we find many searching for advice on:

a) How to make a man fall in love with the real me

b) How to make a man love you and everything you do

c) How to love a man

d) How to love a guy

e) How to make a man love you forever and ever

Men are different "animals". Most women realize this, right? How many women have tossed and turned late at night trying to figure men out, and how to show them that they truly care? Are gifts the best and only what that you can show that special guy that you truly do love them? In this article we will be going into this subject matter in great length. We will be exploring the various ways in which you can show him that you truly love him.

Food...

We have heard that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. This is true for many men. Now we won't go as far as to say that food is the way to make a man fall in love with you, but every man appreciates not only good food, but the thought that goes into the preparation of that special meal.

1) Let's consider breakfast for starters. How about making him something unique...like "heart-shaped" pancakes perhaps? Not into pancakes? How about trimming the corners off his toast to replicate the heart shape? The butter that accompanies the dish can also be trimmed into a heart shape, and will taste great on toast or pancakes. Yum...

2) The next meal of the day is lunch. Many men take their lunch from home, and this provides you with a great opportunity to show him that you love him. Why not make him a special lunch meal and pack it with a note saying "I love you". He will be quite surprised...especially when he is looking for that "same ole, same ole sandwich".

3) The evening dinner is the main meal of the day for most people. It's a time when you can sit back and relax the most during the day. How about a candlelight dinner with some scented candles? Why not play his favorite soothing and romantic music in the background. Be sure that you make his favorite meal to compliment the evening.

4) Many people eat snacks throughout the day. So many in fact that they are not very memorable. How about a romantic snack? Is there a special treat that you enjoyed when you were first dating? Perhaps an ice cream soda at the local drugstore? Nobody says that you can't go back and do it all over again. Bring on all those romantic snacks...they mean so much...

Showing Affection

People need to know that others care about them, and men are included in this group. Even though a guy may be the "strong, silent type", he can still get a tear in the eye when he sees a touching or romantic movie. If you are looking to show that guy that you love him, why not try:

1) A hug says so, so much. When he least expects it, why not give him one. Come up from behind, put your arms around him, and give him a great big bear hug. You could whisper "I love you" into his ear. No need to overdo this mind you...keep it special.

2) Listen to that guy in your life. One of the most basic needs of all human beings is the need to be heard. When he comes home after a tough day at the office he might want to rave and complain a bit. Just sit back an listen to what he has to say, and instead of changing the subject, offer "I'm here" responses such as "Hmmm", "I see", or "Oh my".

3) Don't forget, some guys don't like to talk at all when they get home from work. The frustrations of their day are too near and too raw. They just want to sit back and "veg" for a while. Give them all the time that they need. They will probably start to talk your ear off once they unwind a bit, but give them that time to unwind.

4) There are a lot of guys who love a good massage. If you are gifted in this way, why not use your talent? The human touch is a very powerful thing. Gentleness is important...no need to "work him over". Give him a back rub, or run your fingers through his hair. He will tell you what he likes if you give him the chance. This is a great way for you both to unwind and prepare for the evenings events.

Activities With Romance

Many men are adventurous and energetic and love to try out new things. They love to test their manliness. Here are a few activities that will show that you love that special guy:

1) You can show your man that you love him is to do something that you would not normally do. For example, perhaps you really hate football. You have made no surprise of this to the guy in your life. Why not put your distain for the sport on hold for a day or two and join him on the couch watching his favorite team? Instead of rolling your eyes and saying "Why are they so brutal" ... ask him what a "first down" means. Guys love to show that they are knowledgeable about something, and will love to explain in detail to you the finer points of the game. If he's not into football, but baseball, or basketball, or hockey, well, I'm sure you can figure out what you should ask him if you watch the sport for a few minutes...

2) Does your man have chores that he needs to do? Many guys have something that they need to do around the house on a regular basis. Let's suppose this happens to be taking out the garbage every week. Why not surprise him by taking it out for him? You could say that since he is especially busy this week you thought that you would help him out. Be sure to indicate why...he may think you really enjoy it and you have found you have a new chore around the house.

3) Why not engage in a pillow fight? For most of us a pillow fight brings back memories of our childhood and jumping up and down on the bed. Who says we have to leave this activity behind once we lose our baby teeth and leave home? When you are lying in bed one night, perhaps watching the television, why not just grab your pillow and give him a good wallop? He might be really involved in what he is watching so you had probably better gauge his mood before you do. Who knows? You might have "hit him" at the right time and in the right place, and with his childhood memories reignited, you get yours and get yours good. Let the pillow fight begin!

Give Him Compliments

We all love to get compliments. We like to hear that others like our clothes, our jewelry, our hair, our "whatever". Do you know how to compliment a guy? Here are a few ways:

1) Say nice complimentary things about your guy when you are out with others. Tell others how special he is, or how hard he works, or how much he cares. Word will eventually get back to that man of yours, and he will be thrilled that all the good aspects of his character have not gone unnoticed.

2) Is that guy of yours a fancy dresser sort of a guy? Some guys are, and some, well "not so much". If he is a fancy dresser he will appreciate it when other people notice this fact. Take special notes of a new piece of clothing, or how he has put his style together, and let him know that you notice.

3) Is there something that your guy does for you that you really appreciate? Perhaps your guy does the dishes from time to time? Maybe he takes the baby out for a regular walk when you need time to unwind? Let him know how much you appreciate these little (and not so little) things that he does for you.

4) You could always leave some little romantic notes in places that he will find them. Why not put one on the bathroom mirror for example? He will see it when he gets up in the morning. Why not put one on the steering wheel of his car? He will see it when he drives to work in the morning.

Get Him Something

We all get gifts from time to time, but this usually is reserved for the holidays or other special occasions. Who says that we can't give gifts at other times of the year? Gifts are a sign of great affection, and if done right, they can pack a lot of romantic "wallop". Let us help you out. We have scoured the web and have come up with what we think are some great gift ideas. Special and unique, we think that you will enjoy giving them as much as they will enjoy receiving them. They are:

Our Way Cool Pick #1 - Does that special guy in your life love the great outdoors? Does he like to camp or hunt or fish? I bet you have spent many an hour worrying about them, right? You realize that he might get lost or hurt, why not worry! What can you do? We have found just the gift. Why not get him a "Satellite Messenger"? This is a great little device that we didn't know even existed. What does it do? Well, let's illustrate with an example. You man is out exploring the wilderness when he gets lost, or injured. He is outside of cell phone range, so he is stranded. What can he do? How can you find him? The "Satellite Messenger" to the rescue! Weighing in at a mere 8oz, it will not only keep track of his travels, it will keep you informed of his current location and status as well. You can easily locate him, and stop your worrying with this great little device. Considering how much piece of mind it will provide, it's just as much a gift for you as it is for him. Did you know that Backpacker Magazine gave this device their 2008 Editor's Choice Award? Check our blog for further details and ordering info.

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The Conclusion of the Matter

We're going to wrap up this article now. Has it been helpful? Have you been provided with enough examples of how to show that special man that you love him? If you would like more info, check out our blog. It goes into greater detail than we can possibly relay in a single article. If you would like to learn of more wonderful presents for men, or more information on those items we have mentioned above, check out www.WonderfulPresentsForMen.com. For all those UNIQUE Christmas gifts you are looking for, check out: www.ExcellentChristmasList.com.

Have fun loving that man...:)

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